Uncle Frank 

World premiere Jan. 25, 2020 at the Sundance Film Festival

Written and directed by Alan Ball

Starring Paul Bettany and Sophia Lillis

Available on Amazon Prime

Part coming-of-age story, part road-trip, part time piece, Uncle Frank is a mostly feel-good movie about a young southern woman in the 1970s whose transition to adulthood is complicated by learning that her favorite uncle is gay.

What I Liked About It

* Great performances by Bettany and Lillis.

* It could have been just a feel-good movie. But it is, in the end, better than that.

* It was a good reminder of how closeted homosexuality was in the 1970s.

What I Didn’t Like So Much 

Knowing Ball’s work beforehand (see About Alan Ball, below), I was expecting a bit more irony and originality than Uncle Frank delivered.

Critical Reception 

Uncle Frank was nominated for and/or won many festival awards, but did not snag any of the majors.

* “Uncle Frank doesn’t have the witty indirectness of American Beauty or Ball’s TV classic Six Feet Under, but it has a strong and very convincing performance from Bettany.” (Peter Bradshaw, Guardian)

* “It’s a poignant dysfunctional family drama laced with warmth, sadness, humor, and hope.” (Randy Myers, San Jose Mercury News)

* “Uncle Frank, a finely acted, often deeply emotional period piece that, despite its share of strong moments, stacks the deck too much for its own dramatic good.” (Gary Goldstein, Los Angeles Times)

You can watch the trailer here.

Interesting 

Uncle Frank came out (no pun intended) in 2020 – a year after Alan Ball’s American Beauty won five Oscars, including Best Picture.

About Alan Ball

Uncle Frank is not an autobiography, Ball said. But it was, he admitted, autobiographically inspired. Ball grew up and went to college in the South (Georgia and Florida). He escaped to New York City, where being gay was more accepted.

After American Beauty and Uncle Frank, Ball developed Six Feet Under, True Blood, and the short-lived Here and Nowfor HBO.

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I’m hearing a lot about Long-Term COVID these days. LP lost his sense of smell for nearly a year. JP has been getting headaches. JM is fatigued and sleeping more than ever. The CDC website lists it as a medical condition, identifiable by these and other symptoms.

I had COVID once, almost two years ago, and it was pretty strong, like a bad flu. It stayed bad for about 48 hours, and then lessened considerably to the sniffles, which lasted a few days more. And that was it. I tested clear. I had the antibodies. I was deemed fully recovered.

I didn’t notice any lack of smell. But I never had a good sniffer to begin with. I had no headaches, but I did have joint pain and muscle soreness and fatigue. The fatigue lasted for a month or so. The joint pain and muscle soreness is still with me.

I don’t think of any of that as Long-Term COVID. The seeming reduction in smell I attributed to psychosomatic brain malfunction. The fatigue was real. And I could have blamed it on the COVID. Instead, I attributed it to the week I spent in bed and the three weeks after that I went without exercising. At my age (71), losing lung capacity and muscle strength happens much quicker than it does when one is younger. And prior to getting COVID, I had acquired a very high level by putting in two hours of high-intensity training every day. And so, when I went back to that same level of training, I couldn’t keep up. But I tried. And that left me feeling exhausted.

I remedied it by doubling up on my cardio training and lifting heavier weights. And within a few months, I was in better shape than I was before my bout with COVID.

As far as the joint pain and muscle soreness, I still have that. But so does everyone else that does my sport. Even the 20-somethings.

Yes, I’m skeptical about this phenomenon of Long-Term COVID. I’m not disputing that the virus can leave its victims with physical symptoms that linger. But I do believe that, except for patients that have other health issues, the post-virus effects are nothing to worry about.

There is a big difference between the coronavirus, which is a recognized and legitimate disease, and Long-Term COVID, which is a description of maladies ex-COVID patients are reporting.

The former is an actual biological thing that can be scientifically detected. The latter is a set of symptoms that are connected to COVID only by subjective reports. The CDC accepts Long-Term COVID as a legitimate medical condition. But there is absolutely no empirical evidence that it exists independent of the subjective accounts.

The most common symptoms of Long-Term COVID are headache, fatigue, brain fog, achy joints, and shortness of breath. These are the same symptoms people experience after a cold or the flu. They are also very similar to the symptoms associated with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and PTSD – two medical conditions that are recognized by the medical establishment and covered by most health insurance plans.

If people want to believe they have Long-Term COVID, and want to get whatever social, psychological, or medical benefits might accrue from making that claim, I say, “More power to ya.” But if it’s a friend or family member that would like to get over it and get back to full health, I’d tell them to consider doing what I did. Begin with the idea that you are healthy, but out of shape. Get plenty of rest. Eat lean. Exercise with increasing vigor. Set goals. Strength goals. Heart-rate goals. And blood-pressure goals. Check your numbers as you go. Don’t expect miracles. So long as you see improvements, be happy.

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Stalin: The Court of the Red Tsar 

By Simon Sebag Montefiore

848 pages

Paperback published Sept. 13, 2005 by Vintage

I’m just getting into this book, but I can feel that it is going to somehow change my life.

Stalin: The Court of the Red Tsar is a study of Joseph Stalin and his closest associates from the late 1920s to his death in 1953.

Dozens of books have been written about Stalin as a Communist ideolog and a political leader. Montefiore’s book looks at his personal life and the lives of those closest to him. It is, as one reviewer put it, “a study of what can happen when a vicious, brutal, but charming-whenever-necessary killer climbs to power in a system that has nothing by way of checks and balances.”

Interesting 

Stalin was intelligent, persuasive, and charismatic. Even Churchill – no fool when it came to Hitler’s intentions – was wowed by Stalin.

After securing a victory over Hitler, his former ally, Stalin directed a policy of mass murder for almost 30 years. He killed anyone he thought opposed him. And he murdered their wives and children, too. The total body count under Stalin’s regime is estimated to be 20 million to 60 million.

Critical Reception 

* “A book that had to be written…. Montefiore’s biography is different from anything in this genre. A superb piece of research and frighteningly lucid.” (The Washington Times)

* “Stalin retained the admiration of some Western democrats right to the end of his life. Of course, they did not know how vile he was, but they should at least have suspected. Thanks to Simon Sebag Montefiore, there is no longer the slightest justification for thinking of Stalin as anything other than a monster.” (The Guardian)

* “Montefiore has so assiduously collected and vividly presented his case that no future biography of Stalin will be able to ignore this intimate portrait.” (The New York Times)

Click here to watch a compelling interview with the author.

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 An ideolog (AYE-dee-uh-log) is a person who promotes a particular ideology, especially as an official or the most eminent advocate. As I used it in today’s book review: “Dozens of books have been written about Stalin as a Communist ideolog and a political leader.”

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Re my May 30 essay on accepting responsibility for your own life: 

“Your sentiments should be etched in stone.” – JM

“Loved the statement you wrote [about what to think when feeling victimized]. I’ve cut it out and taped it up on my son’s bathroom mirror!” – LD

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From Far Out Magazine: “10 incredible films to put a smile on your face.” A few of them are already on my list, but I’m adding many of those I have seen, because I forgot how good they were. Click here.

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